Women are still doing most of the housework

Unequal patterns persist for decades throughout relationships and into parenthood, study shows.

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Women are still doing most of the housework years into their relationships — and their workload only increases in the child-rearing years, according to new U of A research. (Photo: Getty Images)

Women are still doing the lion’s share of housework years into their relationships, revealing an uneven gender divide that continues to linger, according to new University of Alberta research. 

A big gap in housework contributions that already existed for women surveyed at age 25 stayed the same to middle age, according to a study of 520 people, equally divided between the sexes.

Along with that, women’s domestic workload only increased during the child-rearing years, the research showed.

The findings suggest that for couples who want to close that gap, “it’s a challenge,” says Matthew Johnson, a relationship researcher at the U of A and lead author on the study. 

“Once these patterns are set early in the relationship, they tend to persist.”

The housework patterns for the women the study followed are stable over long spans of time, and “we aren’t seeing that gap narrow over time for the men,” notes Johnson, a human ecology professor in the Faculty of Agricultural, Life & Environmental Sciences, whose co-authors on the paper include professors emeriti Nancy Galambos and Harvey Krahn, and sociology professor Michelle Maroto in the Faculty of Arts.

Drawing on survey data from the Edmonton Transitions Study begun in 1985, the research is among the first to explore the trajectories of women’s and men’s housework from young adulthood into midlife, over 25 years.

The researchers analyzed trajectories of the couples’ contributions to cooking, kitchen cleaning, grocery shopping, housecleaning, laundry and overall housework from ages 25 to 50 years. 

They also measured who was doing household chores at ages 25, 32, 43 and 50, while raising children.

Along with a higher rate of household chores for women over the years, there was relative stability in women’s and men’s trajectory of cooking meals, women’s housecleaning and men’s contributions to cleaning the kitchen, grocery shopping and overall housework, Johnson says. 

“There were some small fluctuations in who was doing what, but women did the bulk of the work; there were no household tasks where men did the most or even where the work was equally shared,” Johnson says.

The data also showed that women’s housework levels rose at age 32 and again at 43, during the parenting years, before dropping by age 50. When raising children, men also contributed less than normal to doing the chores.

It’s important for couples to be intentional about how they organize these aspects of their life — because how those tasks are managed is likely to continue into the future.

Matthew Johnson

Matthew Johnson
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The finding “fits with gender theories that parenthood is an institution that reinforces traditional gender roles, and we found that to be the case,” Johnson notes, though factors like maternity leave available for women but not men before 1990 could also have accounted for the gap.

“It’s also possible that when the children came along, men did do more work, but there was so much more, it could still have been a lesser share,” he adds. 

As well, it’s important to note that not every couple may be unhappy with a lopsided workload, he says, adding that further research is needed to address that question.

“People aren’t telling us how happy they are with the arrangement. In some relationships, they may be OK with how the chores and parenting are divided up.”

Other factors may also influence the division of labour, he adds.

“We have to recognize that housework or any other aspect of a couple’s relationship doesn’t happen in a vacuum,” he says. “It happens in relation to everything in life — the work environment, the ages of kids, socioeconomic circumstances — so there is an underlying complexity.”

That said, if people are unhappy about parts of their relationship, the study suggests that isn’t likely “going to naturally change over time,” he says. 

“If you’re happy with the way things are going, that’s great. But if not, you have to do something to change that pattern, and make a plan with your partner. It’s important for couples to be intentional about how they organize these aspects of their life — because how those tasks are managed is likely to continue into the future.” 

The study was published in the Journal of Family Psychology and was funded by grants from the Social Sciences and Humanities Research Council of Canada, Alberta Advanced Education and the U of A.